forgive-me-not
i don't need forgiveness from you! i get forgiveness from gawd! heh. we all know people like this. can't stand em. they're very confused about what other people think it means to be a christian. it's a perverse corruption of the religion. the lord's prayer asks for forgiveness and in the same breath forgives others. that's the necessary part of necessary and sufficient. unfortunately, it's not sufficient. that forgiveness part needs to be communicated to the offended party. both for their own well being and also your own. if you can't bring yourself to tell the offended person you have forgiven them then you haven't actually forgiven them. and as per the lord's prayer, how can you expect to get forgiveness from god for your own sins if you can't forgive others?