patience
patience is a virtue. so they say. and i mostly agree. though there's a very big difference between waiting for trees to grow, pedestrians to cross, wine to age, etc and waiting for someone's stupidity. like red lights when there's no traffic. like some dickless wonder who thought it would be a good idea to drive the wrong way in a parking lot. like a cashier who'd rather chat with her co-workers than ring up my fucking order. it's not impatience when i get angry when someone wastes my time. my time is *my* time. it's not yours to waste.